Tone Policing: What Is It and Why Does the Internet Dislike It?

Tone Policing: What Is It and Why Does the Internet Dislike It?

“You’ll catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.”

Have you heard this idiom before? If you have, you might recognize its message: “You’ll convince more people of your point if you’re nice.” It seems like a harmless piece of parental wisdom, but it’s actually a large part of tone policing—an Internet derailment tactic that focuses on tone in writing rather than argument.

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What is Tone Policing?

According to Dictionary.com, who earlier this month, is

“A conversational tactic that dismisses the ideas being communicated when they are perceived to be delivered in an angry, frustrated, sad, fearful, or otherwise emotionally charged manner.”

In essence, this means that tone policing is a strategy some people may employ when debating others, especially online. It calls out the tone of the message, especially if it conveys strong emotions, rather than the logic of the argument. It’s a classic logical fallacy that uses an ad hominem—an attack on the person making the argument, rather than the argument itself.

You’ve probably seen tone policing (also known as “the tone argument”) on sites like Facebook, Twitter, and Reddit. In some well-moderated communities, ad hominem attacks like this will be called out and/or prohibited. On unregulated platforms like Twitter, however, tone policing can run rampant, resulting in “clapbacks” based on tone rather than substance.

Is Tone Policing Controversial?

Although the ad hominem attack is a , tone policing as is a relatively new concept. According to Google Trends, use of the term and reached an all-time high in August 2015, when Nicki Minaj delivered her oft-memed .

The bounds of tone policing are inconsistent at best, unless you belong to a community that has defined discussion guidelines. Depending on where you comment online, anything from commenting on profanity to the use of caps lock could be considered tone policing. Many communities feel that tone policing can be used to silence members with less power than others. According to , tone policing can be used to create a “double standard,” where one group is able to express themselves forcefully comment (in her view, men online), and another is consistently policed for the delivery of their messages. This has also been noted by , who see tone policing as .

Most major social networks agree that violent speech, including and direct threats, are unacceptable ad hominem attacks. This means that responding to the hate speech used in an argument is generally not considered tone policing on these platforms. Many even have designed to keep users safe from these, although not all social media users agree that they are necessary or . But aside from hate speech, there is little agreement across communities about what tone policing looks like.

What do you consider tone policing? We would love to hear your thoughts on this controversial topic, so please comment below!

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